You are beautiful Let that sit for a minute. And if you’re thinking... “Yeah, right, maybe if I lost 10 pounds” or “maybe if I was taller”...
Then you are not alone.
Ninety-one percent of women (nearly ALL women) say they’re dissatisfied with their appearance. And just as many men (studies show) don’t think they’re muscular enough.
That doesn’t mean you “need to hit the gym.” That means nearly ALL of us feel bad about our bodies and that is a big problem.
A quarter of how we value ourselves — our sense of self-worth — is based on how positively or negatively we view our bodies.
And how you value yourself affects what kind of jobs you feel like you can apply for, how much you make, how much pleasure you allow yourself to have in daily activities, what kind of partners you attract. In short, this affects your life from the boardroom to the bedroom.
So many coaches talk about ‘self-love’ as the answer, but they fail to show the very real problems/issues that self-love is the answer to. Your quality of life, the quality of the people around you, and your capacity for JOY are all directly affected by how you feel when I say…
You are beautiful.
And until the core issue is resolved, how you see yourself will keep challenging your sense of wholeness, harmony and peace with yourself.
It’s time to Embrace your Radiance As the daughter of a former model, I had to find my way out of never feeling beautiful enough so I could reclaim my own unique light.
Let me tell you what didn’t work (for myself, and for my clients):
Trying to diet/exercise yourself into a specific shape
Trying to ignore your own body, hiding in baggy clothes like your body doesn't exist
Sticking pictures of swimsuit models onto the refrigerator
Spending hundreds, thousands, on clothes to help you feel confident
And instead, you find yourself stuck in a cycle of restriction, guilt, and a closet of clothes you don’t really like.
Even if you lose weight and get in shape, the results might not be what you’re after.
A client of mine who had finally succeeded in losing weight, shared that afterwards, she felt like any attention she got was because she was conforming to mainstream beauty standards, rather than being appreciated for herself and her uniqueness.
In her own words: she was attracting the “wrong attention” and she hated it…
The cycle of self-criticism never ends if we rely on conforming to external physical standards …we can never feel truly loved, first and foremost by ourselves!
My passion and my specialty is in helping you stop playing small, speak up for yourself, and demand the jobs, salaries, partners, lifestyles you deserve…
By starting with yourself.
Feeling comfortable in your own skin. So you can go dancing without feeling self-conscious. Feeling comfortable with being seen, heard, and desired. So you can speak up, make a greater impact, and find the relationships that nourish you.
Feeling better about your body shouldn’t depend on the size of your bones, booty, muscles, nose, waist or breasts.
When I work with clients in Embrace Your Radiance, I use a totally different approach: 1. Uncovering toxic beliefs that keep you small, and clearing the painful emotions that keep you stuck. Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder! And the beholder is you. 2. Reconnecting to your deepest sense of happiness, expanding your awareness of how you feel about yourself when you are happy. Happiness comes before beauty, not after.
This is the key to Embrace Your Radiance.
We don’t stop at clearing the toxic beliefs and emotions that keep you in the suffering cycle — we find your Happy.
We connect you with true JOY.
Because when you are happy, you access a deeper sense of beauty that goes way beyond the superficial standards of our culture...and you feel beautiful.
People who are happy are beautiful — not the other way around.
And when you connect to joy, you become radiant.
I don’t want to make this sound easy, or simple, or reductive “Just be happy!”
Of course, it’s not simple, or easy. It’s a journey.
This program is designed to support you in fully aligning with your unique radiance inside and out, while fully enjoying it. With safe and supportive guidance, you will get the opportunity to let go of any shadows and obstacles that prevent you from fully embodying your unique beauty in the world.
You will get to explore and redefine your own experience of beauty in life: it’s much deeper and visceral than the sterile images typically shown to us!
How Embrace Your Radiance Works While every journey is unique, our work together will encompass three key parts.
Part 1. Clear the way for your own Body Harmony 1. Uncover toxic beliefs that keep you small and clear the painful emotions that keep you stuck. 2. Gain deeper clarity on the origin of the disconnect between you and your body so you can free yourself from the external oppression of beauty myths, and the internalizations of those myths. 3. Identify what stands between you and your own body harmony in the present.
Part 2. Reclaim your own radiance 1. Reconnect to your deepest sense of happiness:true source of your unique radiance! 2. Align with your unique radiance inside and out in all areas of your life. 3. Set up practices to help naturally stay connected to joy and harmony with your body on a daily basis.
Part 3. Living life from Radiance 1. Feel joyful and free in your own skin: anchoring in this new experience of living life: in mundane activities, at work interacting with colleagues and clients, in your romantic life and more. 2. Learn unique strategies to overcome “setbacks” when old patterns get triggered. 3. Recreate your world around an inner sense of harmony and your radiance signature. Maybe it will go with recreating your wardrobe, and/or your environment, maybe it’s bringing your daily flow in sync with what brings you the most happiness! I can’t wait to see what it will be like for you!
Introducing: Embrace your Radiance! This program is foryou if you are tired of holding back or playing small. It’s about reclaiming your wholeness so you can let your true radiance shine!
Investment: $200/month for 3 months ($600 total) What’s included:
Two 1-hour, 1:1 calls per month
Practices and techniques that are easy to integrate into your daily life, as often as you need
A completely tailored approach to *your* Embrace your Radiance process, and the unique support you need to make life-changing shifts
What clients are saying about Embrace your radiance
Through her hypnotherapy sessions I got to believe again, that what I am looking for exists, and is also looking for me. Who I am and what I bring on the table is of big value, way beyond the false reality I believed in, where I did superficial things for others, making their life comfortable just to make up for my perceived lack of self value. I still make others' lives comfortable now, but out of inspiration instead of any fear and compensation. Thanks to these sessions, I have become more calm and grounded. I remembered my positive role models, and got to understand that my attraction to their qualities means that I am not any different from them. In these sessions I grew to expand my ways of being, I became more playful in contrast to the serious person I was being all the time. She helped me improve my body language as well, so the new confidence I now have inside of me is obvious when people look at me. She also had me take actions to fully integrate the changes in my everyday life. I highly recommend Chloe's coaching - It has changed my life and I would like everyone to receive such positive changes in their life!